Posted by Anonymous on 2012/12/26 under Uncategorized Should I tell him the truth about how I feel? We’ve both moved on and I’m almost positive he doesn’t feel the same but when we are around each other I swear I feel such strong tension but I’m too scared to tell him I still love him, that I never stopped loving him. My friend says just tell him because life is too short, that it doesn’t matter if he feels the same or what his reaction will be because I’m doing for me, to get it off my chest. Is she right? Or should I just take it to the grave? When someone gets married they ask if anyone objects and they either speak now or forever hold their peace. We’re both remarried and it may be wrong but a heart feels how it wants. I lose sleep over it and the thought of him never leaves my mind. I feel like I do need to tell him to try and get some peace but I don’t know if it will accomplish peace or cause more chaos.
Tell him. Because even if you get rejected, it will still feel better than holding all these feelings inside. Plus he might feel the same way and you are just wasting time worry. Just do it. Because if you don’t, you will regret it later down the line. Follow your heart this time and not your mind. It is for the better.
Thanks Anonymous. You’re right and so is my friend. I plan on telling him the next time I see or talk to him…wish me luck